How It Works

How Review the Messages Works

A structured process designed to make long and complicated conversations easier to understand.

Choose Your Review

Select the review level that fits the length and complexity of the conversation.

Complete a Short Intake

Tell us about the relationship, the date range, platforms, and the questions you most want answered.

Submit the Conversation

Upload messages from supported platforms and any optional supporting materials. You stay in control of what you provide.

We Organize the Record

We arrange the messages in order and identify important periods and missing sections.

We Compare Over Time

We track claims, promises, financial requests, boundaries, writing changes, and how the relationship evolves.

Important Findings Are Verified

We return to the original messages before including a significant finding.

You Receive the Report

A clear report explaining what appears reassuring, what raises concern, what remains unresolved, and which questions may deserve an answer.